Pit Bull Training Tip of the Month:
Leadership Rules and Exercises
NOTE: These rules are from the March issue of the Gazette. I am reprinting them this month because they are incredibly important for establishing yourself as your dogs leader and resource provider.
In the Pit Bull Lovers forum I have written about these rules and exe rices quite a bit. I decided to make this information available in the newsletter for two reasons...
1. Everyone who shares their life with a Pit Bull should know and use them.
2. My motto as a dog trainer/pit bull lover is, "Share my knowledge and do no harm."
Without sharing this information I am doing a disservice to the Pit Bull community. Therefore, here we
go...
Why Are These Rules Important?
In order to live a healthy, balanced, and happy life with your dog you must understand that dogs
are creatures of habit, structure, and consistency.
Day in and day out they expect consistency in their lifestyle.
This is one reason why when people move their dogs start showing behavior problems. They move is causing
them to become nervous, fearful, aggressive, or a host of other unwanted behaviors because their routine is
being upset in a huge way.
Your dog expects routine and consistency in their life. Their instincts and genetics demand it.
These rules are also important to establish you, in a non-violent manner, as the leader.
The Ten Commandments of Pit Bull Ownership
Yes, they are that important, I call them Commandments for a reason. For the average Pit Bull owner these rules are
unbreakable commandments. No exceptions.
Rule #1: Thall shall not let thy dog on thy furniture. Ever.
This is a biggie. Especially the bed. The bed is your's. The bed is your personal space and since we spend more than half our lives asleep, your bed is the mecca of furniture for your dog. That is where you have relations, that is where you sleep, that is where your skin cells accumulate, that is your spot.
Allowing your dog on the bed is like giving a nine year old the keys to your car to drive to the store.
If you are allowing your dog to sleep with you, stop. Especially if your dog is showing behavior problems like jumping, nipping, mouthing, barking at you or your family, or a host of other little things that turn into power struggles.
Rule #2: Thall shall not let thy dog free feed.
One word for this practice. Ugh.
Leaving food down for your dog can be compared to having a child with an eating disorder and allow stocking your fridge with candy bars.
You are allowing the dog to set their feeding time (giving them control of their food and you) and you are also allowing them to learn how to pick at their food. If you've been free feeding your dog and your dog is overweight, stop free feeding.
If you have been free feeding your dog and your dog is food bowl aggressive, stop free feeding.
If you have been free feeding your dog and you are experiencing behavior problems like jumping, nosing your hand for attention, growling at you while eating (red flag!), stop free feeding.
If you can't understand why your puppy isn't potty trained yet and you have been free feeding, stop free feeding. What goes in on a schedule, comes out on a schedule. :o)
Feed at least once a day (I feed one time) and make that time after you have already eaten.
Allow your dog to see you eat something (a cracker, a meal, doesn't matter just something) and then set their bowl down for them to eat.
I also recommend asking them to sit and wait for 30-60 seconds before allowing them to eat.
If your dog is food bowl aggressive do the above and put the food in the bowl using your hand (dog should NOT be around you at this time). The purpose of this is to mark their food with your scent.
Rule #3: Never allow your dog to leave through a door (any door) before you.
This goes for the car as well. My dogs are not allowed in my truck until I tell them it's okay to get
in. They will sit and wait by the door until I say, "ok, let's ride." They are also required to hold a down
while riding unless I have them restrained (restrain your dogs please.)
Why do I do this? Because your dog must follow you in order to establish yourself as a leader. If they lead you, how are you going to control them? Quick answer, you're not.
By making them wait before going in and out of doors until you have gone through you are telling them that you are the leader that they must wait and allow you to enter first. This is also a patience building exercise for those door chargers out there.
Rule #4: Never let your dog chase kids.
This one is kind of obvious. Dogs are hunters. They chase down their food. Kids are not the same as adults. They do not smell like us until their teen years and they do not sound like us either. They squeal, they use jerky movements, their are animated (dogs LOVE animation) and this causes a dog to chase.
Chasing kids gives the dog power over them. It shows the dog that they are in charge, after all, a leader would not run from them.
Never allow your children to run from your dog. Ever. This will stop the problem before there is a problem.
A word about motion.
Dogs use their eyes for one thing only. To spot movement. They don't hunt with their eyes nor do they use their eyes to identify things. They use their eyes to spot movement, the ears to focus on the movement and the nose zero's in where the
movement is coming from and what the movement is.
A perfect example of this is watch a dog run after an animal like a squirrel or a rabbit.
When a dog chases these animals the rabbit stops in it's tracks and freezes. Notice the dog responds in the same manner. As soon as the animal stops, the dog stops and starts to use it's other senses (hearing and smell) to locate the animal.
Rule #5: Never allow your kids to chase your dog.
The opposite of rule #4 is never allow children to chase your dog.
Why? First off it could make your dog leary of kids. Not a good thing to teach your dog.
Second, if the dog turns and the kids run from it, it has learned that confronting them results in retreat. Your dog has now learned to turn the tables and treat the kids with confrontation. Again, not a good thing to teach your dog.
Finally and the most important reason is, this teaches your dog that your kids are not leaders but littermates. Littermates chase each other and they turn the tables on each other and it's a game. However they are not going to be living with each other forever and eventually the chasing turns into a serious game of pack placement.
Never give your dog power over your people. Ever.
Rule #6: Thall shall not play tug of war
About 4 1/2 years ago I would have not included this into my rules. Now, I have dealt with enough Pit Bulls that are down right rude and crude and the only thing that I see wrong is their people play tug with them.
Some experts will tell you it's okay as long as you win. I am not an expert, but I will tell you this, don't do it.
Spring poles? This is not tug of war with you. This is tug of war with a toy and a structure. You are not playing with the dog the dog is playing by itself.
Remember the last part of rule #5. Never give your dog power over you or your people.
Tug of war gives your dog power. How? It teaches your dog to match strength with strength. It tells the dog it is stronger than you and it can impose it's will using this power.
If you've ever had a hard puller shake the tug toy you know that within a second the dog can strip you of the toy.
What have you shown the dog? You have shown the dog that if it uses aggression it will win.
I don't know about you, but I don't want to teach my dog that aggression is an acceptable drive to use on me or anyone else for that matter.
It's easier to play fetch or use a spring pole and incorporate training into both.
Rule #7: Thall shall not let thy dog hide under things
As with Rule #1 allowing your dog to claim the territory under objects like chairs and stools and
what not can also lead to problems.
If your dog is under your chair, move them out from under it and give them a proper
bed to lay in that is out away from their hiding spot.
But Jason, my dog isn't aggressive or they aren't afraid, or (fill in excuse here).
My answer to that is, it's just a matter of time before they start to show you something.
Odds are they do, you just miss it.
Rule #8: Thall shall not lavish attention on thy dog for no reason
Okay, I'm going to get some hate mail over rules 1, 7 and 8 for sure. I mean who am
I to say that you shouldn't give you dog loads of pampering and attention right?
Well, I'm a guy with a fearful dog that has gotten loads of attention and was
made worse when lavished and pampered. Now that I have thrown her out into the
world she is not so fearful or pushy. I'm talking about my dog Honey by the way.
I'm also a guy that has seen dogs bite their owners for NOT lavishing attention
on them (most are not Pit Bulls by the way).
I have seen Pit Bulls bark, whine, snap, growl, and jump on their owners to
get the attention they have been giving so many times before for free.
So yeah, I think I have some new info for those Pit Bull pampering owners.
Stop it.
Wanna know a little secret of mine? My dogs are ignored until I want to
show them attention. Oh, you are horrible Jason! Shame!
My dogs LOVE me. Why? Because when I do pay attention to them it's on
my terms and my terms are usually fun terms.
The rest of the day the rest and be dogs.
When I say their names, they respond quickly.
I'm not tooting my own horn. I'm showing you why lavishing your
dog without work is a road map to bad behavior.
Think it about it this way.
We send our kids to school daily. They are expected to earn good grades.
In return they get things. They can stay out with friends longer, they can borrow the car,
they can sleep over with a friend on Friday night, etc...
If they don't get good grades what do we do?
Ground them.
Why should your dog be able to avoid this situation? Your dog is an animal. Not
a kid. Your dog is a dog.
They must earn the right to be given praise by showing good behavior.
For the record, my dogs get plenty of pampering. But on my terms. They have the best
medicine, the best exercise, the best training, the best diet, and they are very well
taken care of. All you have to do is look at them. They are not unhappy in their home.
But they have earned the right to go places, to get great food, to get love and pampering
by showing me they can behave.
If you pamper your dog for free your dog owns you. You are the slave to the dog and
that is not something you want to teach your pooch.
Rule #9: Thall Shall Walk thy dog as often as possible
I asked a lady who emailed me about her Pit Bull who was jumping and chewing
on things how many times a weeks she walks her dog.
Her response was, "About once a week. Sometimes twice."
I then asked, how far to you walk her? Do you know?
Her response was, "About three blocks or so. I'm not sure. It's not
that far though, I get tired fast."
Can you spot the reason (A) this dog is jumping and chewing and (B)
why this lady should not have a Pit Bull?
Walking your dog is a bonding experience. It is how you form
the strongest relationship possible with your pal.
Try this on for size. Don't walk your dog for two days.
Write down their behavior pattern. Spot jumps, spot chews,
spot whines, etc...
Now, walk your dog for 2 days in a row.
Write down their behavior pattern.
Almost without fail two things will happen immediately.
1. Spot will seek you out more and want to be near you.
2. Spot will show better behavior because he is tired.
I notice that my dogs listen better and seek my company
out more intensely after our walks. They love it
when I put a hat on. They know were heading out for an adventure.
Not only does a walk give your dog exercise, the walk also helps
you understand your dog better and in turn, your dog learns about
you as well.
Lead the walk, lead the dog, earn their trust.
Rule #10: Thall shall never, ever, under any circumstances
hit their dog or yell at their dog or scold their dog.
Ever. Period. End of story.
I am amazed by the amount of people who hit their pals. Even a small short
slap on the nose damages your relationship.
I am not a push over by any stretch of the imagination. My dogs
have rules. They must obey them or they are punished.
However, their punishment does not include being hit or scolded
with a harsh loud voice.
Let me share some facts with you.
Hit your dog and your dog will eventually bite you, run from you, and
completely fear you. Why do this to your pal?
Yelling at your dog does nothing. Your dog has incredible hearing. They
hear you. Yelling does not make them suddenly better in the behavior department.
It does nothing to get your message across because they are already misbehaving.
Scolding your dog by pointing, giving them that "I know you did it" talk
does nothing. They don't know what they did. They live in the moment. A dog
does not care, think about, or have thoughts about the pee it took 10 minutes
ago. It is natural for them to do that. Do you think about the pee you took
15 minutes before? Nope. It's something we do.
Your dog does not know they did something wrong.
This is one of my pet peeves (no pun intended). If your dog takes a pee
on the floor while you were out in your car getting something they do not
know what you are upset over when you notice it.
I repeat, they do not know what you are upset about when
you notice it.
Dogs are masters at reading our body language. They react to
that and not the accident they had in the house.
Think about it. When you see your dog doing something you
don't like, do you honestly think they say to themselves, "Oh, she
busted me, I knew I should have held it. I'm in for it now I
will run!"
Not by a long shot. They read your body language and recognize
that you are upset. And from previous experience they know
you are about to scold them.
I have heard every excuse on earth and then some for not
following one or all of these rules.
There is only one excuse for not following the above rules.
Laziness.
When I consult with people and when I take on a dog training
client the first thing I share with them is this list. Everyone
has a problem with this list. Everyone.
Understand that this is not to make your dog suffer or
punish them. This is to enrich your relationship through
consistency, rules, and fair treatment.
We expect this of people in our lives and I for one think
we should expect it of our canine companions.
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